“A Forced Love is a Selfish kind of Love.”
Life is about gaining and losing. If you can have everything you wanted, what would be left for the other people to have? We rule our own lives but not other’s—that’s what makes life more unpredictable. One decision will cause a domino effect to some people’s life.
We decide what we can have but not what we can lose—that’s why some people chose to leave. Does love means possessing? Or does love means selflessness? Letting go is never an act of weakness rather it is an act of bravery that despite wanting that for yourself, you chose to loose grip on it for the betterment of everything. We should learn to let go not to set them free but to set ourselves free. Loving someone is not you being happy but being happy together. If you feel the need to force love, maybe it wasn’t love at all. Maybe it’s you forcing a piece of puzzle on a wrong spot—assuming that you are being betrayed by pointing a knife on your chest when really you’re the one holding it. Love can never be forced. Love is selfless.